from what im seeing, it seems as if so much couples are in such bad terms right now. im glad to know that at least, i'm not the only one going through this. honestly, when a girl complains about you not calling anymore, it would be pretty useful and less dramatic if you actually would call once in awhile. like im pretty sure i speak for many girls out there who say that we dont expect you to call constantly, but having you call to check up here and there wouldnt care to hurt. actually, for me at least, it makes me feel very secure and safe just knowing theres some guy out there who actually cares enough for you check up now and just to see if youre okay. you're asking for space yet you're not? you are not making sense. i dont know what you're asking for. are you asking me to give you time on your own and just step off? so does that mean no contact ? when i ask you, can you clarify it for me rather than us screaming and cussing at each other all the time. when you say ease off, what the fuck is that supposed to mean? honestly.. dont i give you enough time for yourself and your friends. its rare that i call and its rare to see us alone together anymore. why ? because it seems as if you'd rather spend your time with your friends our elsewhere doing whatever you like. dont get me wrong, you can do those things, but im finding it that its more often than it should be. where do i fit in your schedule? why is it that not one day am i a part of your daily doings. when was the last time you actually called me because you wanted to, not because i asked you to .. but because you did it on your behalf. i cant even remember. its situations like this that lead me to have second thoughts. i know that i dont deserve to be treated the way you treat me. yes i know you do me good .. i do notice that, dont think that its only the bad that i point out, but i feel as if the bad is overpowering the good, since the bad is whats constantly happening between us. i used to believe that in a relationship, the first 6 months are about getting to know each other and just having fun, once youve passed those months its all about the cussing and the fussing, afterwards its all smooth sailing from there. but from what im experiencing, we're in for a very bumpy ride. theres no sign of smooth sailing in this relationship. its quite wierd because you keep bringing up the title. last time i checked , a title wasnt such a big deal. you keep bringing up the fact that we're not officially together. does it make any difference whether or not we have the title? should we be treating each other differently because we're not legitamently together? if so , then let me be the first to say .. what the fuck is wrong with you?! ugh , i feel so frustrated and confused at the moment. maybe i should take your advice and just ease off.